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Raise a well-behaved child
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Trying to discipline your 8-month-old baby may often seem futile — she’s just too young to grasp your "lessons." But there are things you can do now to increase the likelihood that she will develop into a well-behaved child: Accentuate the positive. Don’t wait for her to do something wrong — instead, acknowledge her good behavior. Disciplinary action you take later will be more effective if your baby can compare it to the good reaction you give her when she’s behaving in a desirable way. Practice simple discipline. If you think you must discipline your baby — for example, if safety is an issue — try to keep your reaction as simple as possible. Saying "no" gently but firmly and diverting her attention to something else works best. And try not to become discouraged if she repeats her bad behavior. Your persistence will eventually pay off. Show your love. To a baby, getting what she wants means that she’s loved. When she doesn’t get her way, it’s important to reassure her that you still support and love her by reacting to her distress in a caring, understanding way. Avoid punishment, which your baby is too young to understand. |
Good for people to know.
October 29, 2008 @ 4:59 am